I’m amazed by my friend. Six-year relationship down the drain, and he’s not a blubbering mess. Instead, he drags lame-old me to go clubbing with him. He’s dancing, he’s drinking, he’s having a good time. That’s when it hit me. I’ve spent more of my life getting over relationships than actually being in relationship. If it weren’t for it not being physically possible, I would think I had more breakups than relationships in my lifetime. The important thing though, is that things are back together. Cool and collected, so I clubbed.
I was surprised to actually get hit on at the club while absolutely scrubbed out though. Note to guys, “can I buy you a drink?” is an infinitely better pickup than, “do you want to dance?” – especially when the guy isn’t even on the dance floor but standing by the bar.
Another note to guys, if the guy very politely turns you down, stay classy and don’t be a total jackass. Smiling doesn’t hurt… unless you have bad teeth.
